undevoting:

samtsk:

Don’t invalidate people’s struggles because you’ve been through worse. If someone is tired after working for 5 hours and you worked for 7, it doesn’t mean that they’re not allowed to be tired. It doesn’t mean they can’t feel what they’re feeling just because you’ve had it worse.

can’t stress this enough

My ex-boss used to use this method on me to guilt-trip me every single time.